The first step to making any type of change in yourself is to be confident in yourself and your decisions to do so. I hesitate to say "Improvments" instead I prefer changes as we don't need improvment we are all perfect as we are, what we need are changes.1. Recognize and accept what you really desire, not what your friends and family tell you to desire. You can then set realistic goals, in this way, you will be familiar with what you need to do and what things that will help you achieve your goals.
2. Know your own personal strengths, find your good points. Finding your own qualities that you have will help you build you to a better you.
3. Know your weaknesses. Try and know all the points that have fouled your progress in the past. We all make mistakes but, we can all also learn from them.
4. Take these steps one at a time, you can't change years of pre learned actions and thoughts over night. Look at your final goal for your self as your masterpiece, you can't perfect an art without practice.
5. Try to improve on just one small area at a time, choose your worst evils and deal with them first. Procrastination being a good start for me.
6. Stay away from negative energies and negative people. People that are always negative tend to make you negative.
7. Always be yourself, there is no point in trying to please everyone, just yourself. let other people know they too are special, by doing so others will be more comfortable with you making it easier to accept you as you are and them as they are
8. Don't worry so much if you do make mistakes, mistakes are how we learn.
9. Realize that you are unique, you are not "the general public", We are all one of a kind and we all hold our own special value.
1 comment:
very nice post, my King! you are right in saying that we should stay away from negative energy but surround ourselves with people with optimistic view as they will likely empower our strength and confidence.
it's nice to see you posting again.
xoxoxox
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